Linda N. Edelstein, Ph.D.

Angels Fly Because They Take Themselves Lightly

by | Jul 3, 2011 | Life Ain't For Sissies, Marriage, Personal Growth, Relationships

Sure, relationships are serious business but the incredible weight that some of us heap on these partnerships could sink a battleship.

I am fatigued hearing about people’s outrageous expectations of themselves and their partners. (Note: sometimes people expect too little, not too much) these days, it seems like it is no longer enough to be a lover, friend and partner.  Now, men and women are looking for soul mates – magical people who will completely, immediately and painlessly understand their deepest being.  Whoever coined that term deserves to be locked up in a room for a year listening Med over 450 casinospel inklusive Slotspel, Bordsspel, Poker, Roulette och spelautomater online online , som kan spelas med var gratis casinomjukvara eller vart flashcasino som inte kraver nedladdning. to the ridiculous expectations and painful disappointments that result from such an unworkable concept. It puts unnecessary weight on any relationship.  The higher the expectations and stranger the assumptions, the more difficult it is to change, discuss or negotiate. Conversations become so serious that they are threatening. We could all benefit from lightening up on our relationships.

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